tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post1451146589177952427..comments2023-11-09T02:30:16.995-06:00Comments on ThePerfectionistas: It's All RelativeSalina Khanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08156542579412279055noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-52571440645044514772011-05-23T21:43:56.465-05:002011-05-23T21:43:56.465-05:00Thank you thePerfectionistas Fan! May God reward y...Thank you thePerfectionistas Fan! May God reward you for reaching out to your family, God willing!Salina Khanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08156542579412279055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-51828103779407688822011-05-23T19:48:37.949-05:002011-05-23T19:48:37.949-05:00Yoi've inspired me sooo much...............so ...Yoi've inspired me sooo much...............so I think I'll go e-mail my uncle,cousins,mom,and aunts.And maybe tommorrow I'll call my grandma,grandpa,aunts, and cousins.thePerfectionistas Fannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-47055912495011690082011-05-23T15:40:28.353-05:002011-05-23T15:40:28.353-05:00Salam, Parisa, Thank you for your encouraging word...Salam, Parisa, Thank you for your encouraging words! I think many of us get caught up in our own lives (kids, school, work etc) and neglect our duties to others. My latest struggle is with trying to balance everything! Thank you for reading!Salina Khanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08156542579412279055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-91746503880858393212011-05-23T14:05:20.190-05:002011-05-23T14:05:20.190-05:00What a great blog entry! You have done it again Si...What a great blog entry! You have done it again Sister, thank you for sharing your thoughts with the rest of us and reminding us of small parts of our religion that we forget quite easily.Parisa Alaienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-55361446448972001532011-05-23T09:09:44.452-05:002011-05-23T09:09:44.452-05:00Salam, Sarosh, Thank you for your very touching an...Salam, Sarosh, Thank you for your very touching and inspiring advice...i like the way you led us to forgiveness and encouraged looking at the big picture.Salina Khanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08156542579412279055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-58050476876366078972011-05-23T09:06:33.333-05:002011-05-23T09:06:33.333-05:00Nice! Thanks for sharing the deen.Nice! Thanks for sharing the deen.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1667577309888863587.post-79904534090198257562011-05-23T08:25:56.973-05:002011-05-23T08:25:56.973-05:00Salam Salina,
Jazaki Allah Khair for another well...Salam Salina,<br /><br />Jazaki Allah Khair for another well written blog. May Allah Bless your efforts.<br /><br />Subhan- Allah, your question is something we all deal with at some time in our lives. We are human and tend to get hurt often, either from relatives or friends or in laws. The best way to deal with this situation is to truly forgive the person. Only then we can continue with our relationships with them with pure hearts. Sometimes forgiving come easier than forgetting, but its definitey a derivative that follows suite insha2 Allah.<br />I would suggest falling back on the example of our Beloved Prophet(S. A. W). <br />Also praying for the person who hurt you in your Salah. When we are able to acheive this, it means we have forgiven them for the hurt inflicted and then insha2 Allah will be able to continue & mantain our bonds of kinship. <br />Life is too short, it shouldnt be wasted over trivial fights and misunderstandings. Time is an asset, an enormous blessing bestowed on us from Allah and we shoud be smart to use it to accumulate wealth through deeds like Silat - Ar Raham that counts as a currency towards our AAkhiraa.<br /><br />It Reminds me with these Aayat (19-23) from Surah Al Maarij that I read this morning:<br /><br />Verily, man (disbeliever) was created very impatient; (19) Irritable (discontented) when evil touches him; (20) And niggardly when good touches him;- (21) Except those who are devoted to Salât (prayers)[]. (22) <br /><br />JAK wa SalamSaroshnoreply@blogger.com